Stray Minds (Chapter One)

Today I’d like to share with you a lesson that everyone neglects in communication.

We all have relationships with people in our lives, all people whether they are your mothers your fathers your brothers, sisters, relatives, friends, best friends, acquaintances, colleagues, strangers, one-time meetups or even total no bodies. Communication is a general thing in all these relationships that we have in our interactions with other humans. Communication is a must go-through aspect in our interactions and reactions to everything that happens or occurs around us.

The results and outcomes of our interactions are the main determining factors of our feelings and our feelings are the main catalyst for our inputs or our reactions.

Do you understand what I`m talking about yet?

Are you still wondering where all that introduction would lead to? If you are; then it means that you`re not reading this article or publication or whatever you might call it for the information in it. You`re only reading it in order to complete it and get a general idea of what information I`m trying to portray here. But this doesn`t mean that you understood or even perceived it any more meaningfully or truly to an extent where it is of use to you in your life. Yes you, the reader of this article!

Now that you have already reached this part of reading this, I`ll assume that I caught your attention already. So now let me start teaching you this Lesson in communication with everyone:

• If you`re a Father or a Mother:

Things you should do:

1. Be honest to yourself about your intentions in life.
2. Be honest & true about your reasons for raising a family before even having a baby or reaching a level of starting to educate your child about life.
3. Be knowledgeable and educate yourself about all aspects of life and never stop searching and researching for new and updated information on Absolutely Everything.
4. Have the Patience to listen to People.
5. Judge or decide only after understanding the whole picture.
6. Keep your emotions under control.
7. Schedule your times accordingly and fairly.

Things you shouldn`t do:

1. Create masked personalities or multiple social facades.
2. Not knowing the purpose of your decision to get married or raise children.
3. Ignore knowledge and New Information.
4. Treat everything with Anxiety and Automated response.
5. Understanding half the facts and assuming the other half.
6. Be Reactive and treat everything with a sense of “Just get it done anyways”.
7. Treat all what may transpire in your life with random reactions that are not carefully thought out or measured.

• If you`re a Single Man or a Single Woman:

1. Be honest to yourself about your intentions in life.
2. Be honest & true about your reasons for every action that you do on a daily basis.
3. Be knowledgeable and educate yourself about all aspects of life and never stop searching and researching for new and updated information on Absolutely Everything.
4. Have the Patience to listen to everyone in your life whether they are your parents, relatives, brothers or sisters, friends or just acquaintances.
5. Judge or decide only after understanding the whole picture of whatever situation it is that you`re dealing with.
6. Keep your emotions under control even if it`s any sensitive situation that needs a creative response. This is your biggest mistake.
7. Schedule your times accordingly and fairly. Don`t look at time like it`s for granted. Don`t treat time like it`s replaceable or Assume that there is a future with time in it.
8. Be inline with your Ethical Standards and Principles in your Society.

Now Let me tell you why all the above advice relates to communication.

People only suffer stress, discomfort, displeasure and disdain for anything or any situation that is a result of misunderstanding, misinformation, misleading, misinterpreted and/or misperceived facts. Why do I use the word facts here? Do you know? Let me explain; facts is a word that describes a definite occurrence or fixed status or representation of any information on any idea, opinion, stance or understanding that has already occurred in the Past. How does it relate to the above-mentioned state of feeling described about people? And does it have any relation to Communication?

These are all questions that can easily be answered and deduced by your brain (the reader) at this point in this article, you know why? Because by now you spent about 10 minutes or more reading slowly and carefully in order to start understanding the whole concept of this article. Am I getting to your brain yet? Because you gave your mind the time to process the information which you are reading in this article, you are starting to give your imagination a large empty area to fill with information that can be broken down and processed with reasoning. This is the function of your brain actually, it is the reason why your brain exists and it`s to continue processing and as long as it continues processing then it starts to create knowledge that lasts for as long as you need it. Time is everything for your brain; it defines how your brain decides on right or wrong, good or bad, wise or not.

To be Continued…